Why many sensitive people are born into insensitive families
It is no coincidence that despite being highly sensitive, perceptive or observant, you ended up in a 'less sensitive' family. This is where you can learn lessons and deal with old pain. In this article, she discusses the obstacles and opportunities that come your way.
The ultimate challenge is to find yourself again. Dig your true self out of the mountains of judgement and non-self energy and restore it to its glory.
old soul, old pain
Many people who are by nature highly sensitive, perceptive, clairvoyant, sharp-eared and/or telepathic are reincarnated in a place where their sensitivity is not understood. Old Souls deliberately chose "Troubled Family" to play on their latest old theme. Here, due to a lack of support, understanding and validation, they can face old pain and learn to trust themselves.
Your senses work differently
This path brings many specific challenges. If you are sensitive, sentient etc. in an insensitive family, you may acquire feelings that your family members have not yet developed or have developed very little. But because these information channels are natural to you (you naturally feel what other people feel!) and you are just a baby, toddler or child, you will be surprised how others disagree with you.
Your intuitive statements, your feelings are not recognised or taken seriously. Your experiences may be dismissed as nonsense, fantasy or lies, so at some point just shut up. At worst, you begin to doubt yourself and your own perceptions and opinions.
Moreover, others may feel threatened by your opinion, piercing gaze or statements that are too close to truths they do not want to admit. I encounter this regularly: highly sensitive people who, as children, instinctively knew how to put their fingers where it hurt. They name exactly things that the adults around them don't want to know, which is certainly not appreciated or even punished.
School is so boring
School systems are also generally not set up for sensitive populations. Education is primarily about conveying the facts and ideas of others, rather than creative and innovative thinking and research. For sensitive and especially bright children, this is incredibly boring. They often focus their attention on what interests them: their own dream worlds, other dimensions, their fantasies. If they fall behind at school, they may be wrongly considered 'stupid' or labelled with certain labels.
Teachers can feel cornered when children see through them and expose their lack of real authority. Highly sensitive children who radiate a lot of light may unconsciously be seen as a threat by teachers who lack their power and keep their insecurities and pain to themselves. I have noticed that these teachers sometimes behave emotionally, verbally or energetically aggressively towards such children, or even bully or help other children.
Unreasonable label
When you are placed in an environment at such a young age that does not support your views, or even denies or punishes them, the result is often that you begin to doubt yourself and close yourself off. Moreover, your actions are often mislabelled and misunderstood, which can leave you even more confused. "He's quiet, he's absolutely shy." No, he is processing his impressions in a way you cannot see.
"She often retreats to her room; she is unsociable and bored." No, she needs to recharge after a tiring school day with children and teachers who are on a different frequency from hers. She has not yet learned to be true to herself.
"He didn't like playing football like other boys, he was weird. No, he was in touch with a level of existence and consciousness you don't have access to yet, but it's extremely important."
"While others were playing in the forest, she was so quiet; she was introverted." No, she was in touch with nature, silently communicating with the trees.
doubts and confusion
When you grow up in an environment that does not share your views and labels your actions and personality in a way that does not align with your truth, you may have serious doubts about your own truth. The truth about who you really are, the truth of your own perceptions, and the way you perceive that truth with all your senses. You may be making judgements about yourself based on the people around you. Moreover, if you are treated negatively, you may absorb energy and soul parts of others into your system, which can confuse you even more.
rediscover yourself
The challenge in all this is that you eventually find yourself again. Dig your true self, your true personality, out of the mountains of judgement and energy of others and restore it to its glory. Retrieve and rediscover parts of yourself that you have given up or hidden.
You can consciously reclaim your true strength, light, spontaneity, zest for life, humour, wisdom and all the qualities that are intrinsically yours. You can redevelop your innate insights and understandings. You can respect your own gentleness again. You can regain your strength, not based on supremacy, but on truth and fearlessness. Let your love flow again without depending on the end result. You can receive nourishment and support from your first mother: the earth. You can reconnect with your true soul self and source.
stand strong and shine
It is the lack of support from those around you that made you look for support. You looked for it in books, films, nature, like-minded people who resonated with your frequency. But eventually you will find it within yourself. As you complete this journey and rediscover your own power, truth and authority, you will be strong.Then you chart your own course. Then you can let your light shine everywhere. Then nothing will throw you off balance.
help is coming
This is a lesson you can only learn this way. This is not an easy path. But the universe is always working with your soul to provide you with opportunities that support you. Use synchronicity as a signpost: "What a coincidence that this book, this person, this event, this message is coming to me now! The same goes for your invisible angelic soul family, relatives from past lives, nature, crystals and animals. What a coincidence!" Your team. Your own heart can always guide you back to the truth of who you really are: a beautiful, powerful soul!
Much preferable
Rachida Kacimi
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